Discover your Sensuality....
- Andreea J

- Jan 21
- 2 min read
Updated: Feb 3
Do you wish to be a sensual woman? Look in the mirror! Exactly.
Maybe it’s hard to see yourself as sensual, appealing, fascinating, especially when you’re overwhelmed by pressure and responsibilities. But watch yourself carefully. Discover the sensuality of your being. Let it come out and fully enjoy it.
Accept your own body, erotic beneficial impulses, emotions and thoughts related to eroticism. Only by fully accepting your own eroticism you can enjoy the most of it. Step into life as a sensual and lucid woman, conscious of your own eroticism.

Explore your five senses
Enjoy the sensations provided to you by the five senses.
Enjoy the scent of a flower, or the smell of your lover’s body when you make love.
Enjoy the taste of a sweet and juicy fruit, or taste the delicious lips of your lover when you kiss.
Enjoy a magnificent landscape, a sunset, a meadow full of flowers, the first snow of winter or the naked body of your lover.
Enjoy the tender breeze of the wind, the sensual touching of the water when you shower, the touch of a fine silk scarf against your neck, or enjoy every tender and loving touch of your lover. Do not think it’s not the right time and place, that you are in a hurry to go to work or that children/parents/guests are in the next room, but abandon yourself at least for a moment and live with your whole being in his tender touch. Do not think that he is not an expert in massage, but rejoice that he caresses you with love.
Enjoy the sounds of a harmonious and sensual music, the sound of rain, the birdsong or the romantic whispers of your lover.
Cultivate your senses. This will help you discover your own sensuality.

Know and love your body
How well do you know your own body? Do you know exactly what you enjoy?
Knowing your body means to love, to respect and understand its capacity to give and receive pleasure.
The fact of having negative feelings about your body can put a serious barrier in living pleasure. You might think that your lover does not like you entirely as you are. This might inhibit your ability to abandon yourself during lovemaking and living pleasure.
Love your body as it is. Appreciate the harmonious, beautiful parts of it. If you want to shape your body do it with love. A loved body is sexier. Did you ever notice how some women emanate sensuality even though their bodies are not stereotypically perfect?
Trust your own sensuality!
The main obstacle that prevents us from fully expressing eroticism is our mind that convinces us that we are not sufficiently attractive or sensual.
If you are in this situation then stop and let go of these thoughts and begin to strengthen your confidence in yourself as a woman and in your own sensuality.
When you believe in yourself as a sensual woman you feel much freer, more fascinating, more full of life. And the others will notice it too.


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