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Please note - this event is taking place in person ONLY!We all strive to have a meaningful existence.We find fulfilment in serving others or building a career, making a difference in other people’s lives or making a difference in our own life, making it easier, better. Yet for most of us there comes a time when we feel that there is more to life, and want to experience this. As facilitators we have both had the privilege to receive some spiritual initiations and see how these have enriched our lives.I (Iulia) was sixteen when my French teacher asked us how often we look up at the sky. That question stayed with me; we usually don’t; we are just not used to doing it; we’ve actually been told since we were kids to watch where we tread instead. This made me realise that as the earth is part of our life experience, so is the sky. Why should we live only a terrestrial life when there is so much more to discover? It then made me wonder, how can we reach the heights of the sky while keeping our feet on the ground? &nbsp;We have access to so many kinds of knowledge in today’s world, but does any of it really help us to become a more fulfilled woman? Then what is the knowledge or experience that can genuinely and deeply improve our quality of life, giving us at the same time access to unlimited resources? &nbsp;In this practical workshop we will talk about the very special qualities we, as women, are endowed with and how &nbsp;we can cultivate them.What is an initiated woman?<ul><li>A woman who has received the chance for different types of growth (spiritual, erotic etc)</li><li>She has the tools to become a conscious leader of her life</li><li>A woman who recognises that her awakened qualities are a beautiful gift and a responsibility</li></ul>This intimate and awakening workshop will include:<ul><li>spiritual initiation, which is not something that only existed thousands of years ago; it is something accessible and needed as much today as it was in ancient times.</li><li>what it means to be an initiated woman, finding inspiration in a brief incursion into the lives of some of the most famous initiated women.</li><li>guided exercises in which we will aim to tune into deeper, empowering aspects of ourselves, so that you can use these in your everyday life</li></ul>When: Sunday 20th February 6 - 8pm GMTLocation: in person, Oxford Tara Yoga Centre 2nd Floor, Crown House, 193 Cowley Rd, Oxford OX4 1UTLooking forward to a magical time with you all,<a href="https://www.venuswomen.com/about-us" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Iulia</a>

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Each woman aspires to have a certain type of femininity, to a specific type of beauty, according to her soul type, her inner purity, her culture, and the education she received within the family.Every woman aspires to be happy and fulfilled but most women don’t know how to do that. They don’t know what they should do in order for&nbsp;them to be happy. Some women even aspire to develop certain feminine qualities within themselves, or to get out of situations that cause them grief, but they realise that they don’t yet have the tools, or motivation, to do it.So spiritual groups of women can help a lot in this direction.&nbsp;What is a spiritual group of women?&nbsp;A spiritual group is a structured human collective sharing a common spiritual ideal.For instance, women that personally wish to elevate their femininity and awaken their shakti (inner goddess) state, can freely choose to establish a group, in which the main goal shall be the awakening of a unique, elevated femininity within them.In the case of the <a href="https://www.venuswomen.com/our-courses/venus-womens-circle">Venus Women`s&nbsp;Circle</a>&nbsp;the common ideal is to awaken the state of shakti (the inner goddess) in every woman that belongs to one of these groups, along with their perfect identification with the supreme model of the eternal feminine, Mahashakti.Some of the benefits are :<ul><li>Assimilation of the other feminine qualities</li></ul>Within the women’s group each participant can assimilate the archetypical feminine qualities that the other women possess, due to the subtle circuit of energies&nbsp;within that group.This profoundly beneficial complex process of resonance will help all the women who are part of that respective group to enter in communion with different sublime aspects of femininity.<ul><li>Spiritual friendship between women&nbsp;</li></ul>A group of women is the&nbsp;perfect ambiance in which&nbsp;every&nbsp;&nbsp;woman has the chance to feel the taste of a profound friendship,&nbsp;admiration,&nbsp;generosity,&nbsp;and the&nbsp;offering of mutual&nbsp;support.This can enrich her life immeasurably, as well as providing depth and spiritual direction.<ul><li>The end of the competition and comparisions between women</li></ul>Sincerity, affective openness, desire to transform, enthusiasm and superior receptivity greatly enhance the process of transformation for those in a women’s circle.In this way we will learn a new attitude towards other women whom we will no longer consider our 'competition', instead, filled with apprecaition and admiration, they will become our sisters and friends.Gradually this new attitude will manifest not only within that respective group, but towards all the other women, in this way getting rid of many stresses and annoying emotions, like jealousy, judgement and low self-esteem which unfortunately are&nbsp;commonplace between women in most societies.A spiritual group of women offers us the support, the love and the freedom to awaken to our full femininity and the delight of your true selves.

The benefits of being part of a Spiritual Group of Women

Jodie Coghiel

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No matter how many diets or exercise routines you may try to look and feel more fascinating, sensual and confident in your body, they won’t matter if you are ignoring the most important thing:Self-love.&nbsp;Adoration. Appreciation. Self-worth.Where does&nbsp;confidence comes from, though, and how can we feel confident without relying on external factors?These four tips can help you feel confident enough to embody your sensual, fascinating and sexy self:<ul><li>PRACTICE a FEMININE OR FASCINATING DANCE</li></ul>In order to truly embody and embrace your sensuality, power of fascination,&nbsp;self-esteem, overcome shyness and body shame, start practicing a feminine dance, like belly dancing. Or you can try any dance which requires movement of the hips.&nbsp;Moving fascinatingly can greatly increase our body confidence, expressiveness and feminine energy!<ul><li>&nbsp;LEARN TO LOVE YOUR BODY</li></ul>Loving your body and feeling good in your skin will give you the confidence, power, and courage to step out of your comfort zone, speak and shine your authentic feminine charm, enjoy your life more and become the best version of yourself!There are so many reasons to love and celebrate your amazing body.Your body is your home for this lifetime, and it is miraculous! Love it, care for it, nourish it, treat it with respect and honour being a woman (after all, you have the gift of creating new life).<ul><li>PRACTICE SELF-CARE RITUALS</li></ul>Self-care is the first and the most important expression of loving your body. Just imagine, if your partner would tell you very often that he loves you, but he wouldn’t touch you at all, would you believe him? Same goes for self-care. If you say or think that you love your body but you do not express that by nourishing your skin, hair, feet and pampering it with massage, caring touch and good quality cosmetic products, would your body believe you?<ul><li>SLEEP NUDE</li></ul>If there is one thing that will increase your feminine confidence in a big way in a very short time it would be this one.&nbsp;Women are flooded with&nbsp;the “perfect body image” in the mainstream media, many of us do not feel their bodies are beautiful or attractive enough. They often&nbsp;dress and undress very fast, avoid looking at themselves naked in the mirror, and feel very shy while removing clothes in front of their partner or in front of&nbsp;other people while wearing a bikini on the beach.Sleeping nude more often will help you immensely to help you feel more confident in your body. It might seem awkward or scary in the beginning, but start by taking small steps (like sleeping only in underwear) and you will discover the sensual and confident Goddess within you very soon.

Four ways to become a more sensual, fascinating and confident woman

Julio

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What is your super power as a woman? Why is it that femininity has fascinated, emboldened and intimidated for thousands of years?&nbsp;In tantra, the woman’s role in the world and in the spiritual evolution of the man, and of society at large, is of supreme importance.&nbsp;There are certain everyday qualities which we can cultivate as women in order to improve our self-confidence and the way we manifest in the world. This, in turn, will improve our relationships and inspire those around us.&nbsp;Often these qualities are not immediately obvious, but they give a subtle charge that make the woman who humbly displays them very magnetic and admirable.&nbsp;Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, but a true and lasting beauty, one that will keep a conscious man falling in love with you over and over, is the radiant embodiment of the qualities we are going to talk about in this article.A superficial man is like a magpie, always attracted by something that is shiny and new, until something else comes along and steals their attention, and them, away. A conscious man is different, he’s not content with just the veneer or the fancy packaging, he wants to discover your depths. He wants a partner whose qualities compliment him and inspire them both to become the best they can possibly be.Here, in no particular order, are those qualities that, once awakened, will attract more conscious men, women and opportunities to you, and make you an inspiring leader in your own life. It’s no coincidence that some of the most iconic female role models in history have clearly had these qualities in abundance!IndependenceIndependence is a quality that has attracted human attention for a long time; notions of freedom and autonomy are the building blocks of groups and nations. All humans were given free will; and the discovery of what this means to each of our life paths is what makes us unique beings.&nbsp;People admire those who have discovered what matters to them, and pursue it. Conscious people are inspired by those who follow noble or unselfish goals and visions, often independently of societal or familial expectations.&nbsp;A conscious man is one who is on his life’s journey and following his vision, the woman who can embrace such a man has to also value her independence. A real woman will not make a man the sole object or motivation in her life, she will still have her own purpose and goals. A strong man needs a strong woman.&nbsp;Contrary to some popular myths that powerful men seek weaker women who they can dominate, the reality is very different. A genuinely strong man is not intimidated by an independent woman, but motivated and inspired.&nbsp;However, it is also important to note that neither a woman nor a man should be so independent that the space for the relationship is ignored, and both should ensure that they are fully present with each other when together.Indeed, it is spoken about in Tantra that a couple are two strong and independent people who consciously choose to be together because the result of their union; emotionally, erotically, spiritually etc., far exceeds what is possible for them as individuals or with less compatible partners.&nbsp;Therefore, working on your own goals and self-development allows a constant source of renewed energy to enter into a relationship and this helps keep the love fresh and vibrant. The independent woman allows a new her to be discovered in her depths, constantly, by the man who adores her.Emotional MaturityA conscious man is tender, compassionate and understanding of a woman and her emotions. But a conscious woman must take ownership of her emotions and happiness; not project the responsibility for these onto her lover, or anyone else.Personal responsibility, the foundation of which is self-awareness, allows us to understand our feelings and their origins in any given moment. We then search for the tools and means to effectively communicate these to those around us, in a calm and non-confrontational manner.An emotionally mature woman will not create drama, blame or criticise, but will share her emotions in an honest and genuine way, being unafraid to express her vulnerability. After all, vulnerability creates intimacy. She trusts her partner to connect to her and embrace her with his masculine strength, tenderness and awareness.&nbsp;Emotional maturity does not mean aloofness; in fact it is quite the opposite. To understand the depths of our emotions and those of our partner, we need to be willing to be humble; to dive into uncomfortable conversations, reveal things it’d be easier to ignore. To put ourselves in what can seem, to our egos, like emotionally risky situations, in order for the relationship to deepen or progress.&nbsp;A conscious woman also needs to know how to nurture and support her beloved in his difficult moments. Sometimes all she needs to do is offer a warm embrace full of feminine love, and ask the question ‘what can I do to support you?’ Which leaves an opening for the man to ask for what he needs, if he knows! And if he doesn’t, the mature woman can be stable and emotionally responsible enough to support him selflessly in that conversation; without being reactive or taking things personally.&nbsp;Playfulness and HumourOne of the great gifts a woman has is her naturally playful approach, it’s a great antidote for stopping others from taking life or situations too seriously. Men love to be active, often have their eye on the goal and can get a bit tunnel-visioned. The woman’s natural resonance with the ‘game of life’ and the energy of “Lila” – the divine play of life in the Hindu tradition – lends perspective and helps us to realise that, no matter how big or important things seem, there is something much greater and more mysterious at work in the universe.&nbsp;Humour is a great tool for diffusing difficult situations and challenging the ego. It can highlight for us when our ego is out of control better than almost anything; the ego hates to feel ‘laughed at’ or ‘not taken seriously’.&nbsp;In fact, our ability to not take ourselves too seriously is a great gift in relationships, and allows us to always see things from the other’s perspective. When used with awareness, it can take us outside of ourselves, simulating the meditative state of ‘witness consciousness’ and allowing us to view the situation with more detachment. This can also help us gain perspective on our character defects or behaviour patterns we need to work on; leading to faster self-transformation.Intelligence and StimulationA conscious man will always be attracted to a woman who can stimulate his mind. Indeed, it is said that the mind is the largest human erogenous zone.&nbsp;It is inauthentic to downplay your intelligence or opinions. Don’t be shy to share about things that interest you. Regardless of how you did at school, as aware adults we have the resources available to us to educate ourselves, through our own methods, about whatever interests us.If your opinions are rigid and dogmatic, and you do not allow yourself to also be challenged or stimulated by your beloved’s mind, this will lead to disconnection. Authentic men want connection and depth on all levels; a beloved who is interested in improving things, understanding the world around her, and has a richness of experience which she shares in an open and stimulating way.&nbsp;Women are usually more connected to the inner intelligence of the heart and soul; their intuition. Listen to your sense and don’t hold back from sharing these intuitions, even if they cannot be backed by concrete ‘facts’. This feminine wisdom is superior to logic, in that it often defies it. Exemplify for your man the openness and mental flexibility needed to trust this; in doing so you’ll also be challenging the disbelief and stigma around this type of intelligence.&nbsp;Warmth and AffectionIf you want to engage his heart and gain access to his emotional depths, you need to be a shining beacon of love and affection yourself. A woman who radiates warmth from her heart, who is loving, compassionate and caring, who makes small loving gestures, for no apparent reason, will always attract conscious people into her life. What we give, we receive. A woman who selflessly gives love and joy, through her presence and acts of kindness, will only attract more of this energy.A well-adjusted man is not attracted to an ‘ice queen’, or a suffocating mother type. Those who are attracted to these types often have harmful patterns and unhealthy attachment bonds, formed in childhood, or through suffering in early relationships.&nbsp;Part of the feminine mystery is the woman's magical charm and innate capacity to nurture and care about all that is in Creation. It is her resonance with the Divine Mother, the goddess, that leads a man towards his own true essence.This is one of the greatest strengths of a woman; how she leads and guides by example, with love, compassion and selflessness. This type of love does not indulge any neediness, neither is it cold and aloof, nor rejecting the man’s emotions. In its very essence this elevated and inspiring way of loving guides a man closer to his own heart and encourages him to always act with integrity; inspired by her example.Embracing of FemininityIf you want to attract a man who has stepped fully into his masculine power, you have to step into the fullness of your feminine power.Fundamentally, a woman who embraces her femininity, or, as is spoken about in Tantric wisdom, has fully awoken the power of Shakti, has already mastered all the aspects previously explored in this article.&nbsp;She is a full, harmonious, sensual and enchanting manifestation of these energies. This creates an irresistible force of attraction for a conscious man.There is a lot of confusion, rejection and denigration of the feminine energies in modern society and this has led to a lot of women refusing to embrace the fullness of their feminine powers.&nbsp;They would rather deny these, or reject them as being ‘below them’ or ‘unsafe’; instead cultivating masculine qualities which make it easier for them to feel powerful and accepted in a global culture that is dominated by negative masculine qualities.&nbsp;The woman who embraces her femininity is strong and confident in her feminine energies; she does not use them to manipulate or control others, neither is she afraid or ashamed of them; hiding them away where no one can see them.&nbsp;She is sexy, she is powerful, she is sensual, she is bold, she is confident. She is what every conscious man wants, because a relationship with her promises fulfilment of the body, mind and soul, and the gifts to awaken both partners to their full potential.Such a woman will always be met with admiration, adoration and an overwhelming love.As a wise man once said, “If you want to find your King, then you need to first become the Queen whom he will find completely irresistible.”Your femininity is a gift, an inspiration and a miracle; not just to you but to everyone around you; it is our superpower.&nbsp;For more Information on feminine qualities in relationships visit www.voxamoris.ro

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