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What is your super power as a woman? Why is it that femininity has fascinated, emboldened and intimidated for thousands of years?&nbsp;In tantra, the woman’s role in the world and in the spiritual evolution of the man, and of society at large, is of supreme importance.&nbsp;There are certain everyday qualities which we can cultivate as women in order to improve our self-confidence and the way we manifest in the world. This, in turn, will improve our relationships and inspire those around us.&nbsp;Often these qualities are not immediately obvious, but they give a subtle charge that make the woman who humbly displays them very magnetic and admirable.&nbsp;Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, but a true and lasting beauty, one that will keep a conscious man falling in love with you over and over, is the radiant embodiment of the qualities we are going to talk about in this article.A superficial man is like a magpie, always attracted by something that is shiny and new, until something else comes along and steals their attention, and them, away. A conscious man is different, he’s not content with just the veneer or the fancy packaging, he wants to discover your depths. He wants a partner whose qualities compliment him and inspire them both to become the best they can possibly be.Here, in no particular order, are those qualities that, once awakened, will attract more conscious men, women and opportunities to you, and make you an inspiring leader in your own life. It’s no coincidence that some of the most iconic female role models in history have clearly had these qualities in abundance!IndependenceIndependence is a quality that has attracted human attention for a long time; notions of freedom and autonomy are the building blocks of groups and nations. All humans were given free will; and the discovery of what this means to each of our life paths is what makes us unique beings.&nbsp;People admire those who have discovered what matters to them, and pursue it. Conscious people are inspired by those who follow noble or unselfish goals and visions, often independently of societal or familial expectations.&nbsp;A conscious man is one who is on his life’s journey and following his vision, the woman who can embrace such a man has to also value her independence. A real woman will not make a man the sole object or motivation in her life, she will still have her own purpose and goals. A strong man needs a strong woman.&nbsp;Contrary to some popular myths that powerful men seek weaker women who they can dominate, the reality is very different. A genuinely strong man is not intimidated by an independent woman, but motivated and inspired.&nbsp;However, it is also important to note that neither a woman nor a man should be so independent that the space for the relationship is ignored, and both should ensure that they are fully present with each other when together.Indeed, it is spoken about in Tantra that a couple are two strong and independent people who consciously choose to be together because the result of their union; emotionally, erotically, spiritually etc., far exceeds what is possible for them as individuals or with less compatible partners.&nbsp;Therefore, working on your own goals and self-development allows a constant source of renewed energy to enter into a relationship and this helps keep the love fresh and vibrant. The independent woman allows a new her to be discovered in her depths, constantly, by the man who adores her.Emotional MaturityA conscious man is tender, compassionate and understanding of a woman and her emotions. But a conscious woman must take ownership of her emotions and happiness; not project the responsibility for these onto her lover, or anyone else.Personal responsibility, the foundation of which is self-awareness, allows us to understand our feelings and their origins in any given moment. We then search for the tools and means to effectively communicate these to those around us, in a calm and non-confrontational manner.An emotionally mature woman will not create drama, blame or criticise, but will share her emotions in an honest and genuine way, being unafraid to express her vulnerability. After all, vulnerability creates intimacy. She trusts her partner to connect to her and embrace her with his masculine strength, tenderness and awareness.&nbsp;Emotional maturity does not mean aloofness; in fact it is quite the opposite. To understand the depths of our emotions and those of our partner, we need to be willing to be humble; to dive into uncomfortable conversations, reveal things it’d be easier to ignore. To put ourselves in what can seem, to our egos, like emotionally risky situations, in order for the relationship to deepen or progress.&nbsp;A conscious woman also needs to know how to nurture and support her beloved in his difficult moments. Sometimes all she needs to do is offer a warm embrace full of feminine love, and ask the question ‘what can I do to support you?’ Which leaves an opening for the man to ask for what he needs, if he knows! And if he doesn’t, the mature woman can be stable and emotionally responsible enough to support him selflessly in that conversation; without being reactive or taking things personally.&nbsp;Playfulness and HumourOne of the great gifts a woman has is her naturally playful approach, it’s a great antidote for stopping others from taking life or situations too seriously. Men love to be active, often have their eye on the goal and can get a bit tunnel-visioned. The woman’s natural resonance with the ‘game of life’ and the energy of “Lila” – the divine play of life in the Hindu tradition – lends perspective and helps us to realise that, no matter how big or important things seem, there is something much greater and more mysterious at work in the universe.&nbsp;Humour is a great tool for diffusing difficult situations and challenging the ego. It can highlight for us when our ego is out of control better than almost anything; the ego hates to feel ‘laughed at’ or ‘not taken seriously’.&nbsp;In fact, our ability to not take ourselves too seriously is a great gift in relationships, and allows us to always see things from the other’s perspective. When used with awareness, it can take us outside of ourselves, simulating the meditative state of ‘witness consciousness’ and allowing us to view the situation with more detachment. This can also help us gain perspective on our character defects or behaviour patterns we need to work on; leading to faster self-transformation.Intelligence and StimulationA conscious man will always be attracted to a woman who can stimulate his mind. Indeed, it is said that the mind is the largest human erogenous zone.&nbsp;It is inauthentic to downplay your intelligence or opinions. Don’t be shy to share about things that interest you. Regardless of how you did at school, as aware adults we have the resources available to us to educate ourselves, through our own methods, about whatever interests us.If your opinions are rigid and dogmatic, and you do not allow yourself to also be challenged or stimulated by your beloved’s mind, this will lead to disconnection. Authentic men want connection and depth on all levels; a beloved who is interested in improving things, understanding the world around her, and has a richness of experience which she shares in an open and stimulating way.&nbsp;Women are usually more connected to the inner intelligence of the heart and soul; their intuition. Listen to your sense and don’t hold back from sharing these intuitions, even if they cannot be backed by concrete ‘facts’. This feminine wisdom is superior to logic, in that it often defies it. Exemplify for your man the openness and mental flexibility needed to trust this; in doing so you’ll also be challenging the disbelief and stigma around this type of intelligence.&nbsp;Warmth and AffectionIf you want to engage his heart and gain access to his emotional depths, you need to be a shining beacon of love and affection yourself. A woman who radiates warmth from her heart, who is loving, compassionate and caring, who makes small loving gestures, for no apparent reason, will always attract conscious people into her life. What we give, we receive. A woman who selflessly gives love and joy, through her presence and acts of kindness, will only attract more of this energy.A well-adjusted man is not attracted to an ‘ice queen’, or a suffocating mother type. Those who are attracted to these types often have harmful patterns and unhealthy attachment bonds, formed in childhood, or through suffering in early relationships.&nbsp;Part of the feminine mystery is the woman's magical charm and innate capacity to nurture and care about all that is in Creation. It is her resonance with the Divine Mother, the goddess, that leads a man towards his own true essence.This is one of the greatest strengths of a woman; how she leads and guides by example, with love, compassion and selflessness. This type of love does not indulge any neediness, neither is it cold and aloof, nor rejecting the man’s emotions. In its very essence this elevated and inspiring way of loving guides a man closer to his own heart and encourages him to always act with integrity; inspired by her example.Embracing of FemininityIf you want to attract a man who has stepped fully into his masculine power, you have to step into the fullness of your feminine power.Fundamentally, a woman who embraces her femininity, or, as is spoken about in Tantric wisdom, has fully awoken the power of Shakti, has already mastered all the aspects previously explored in this article.&nbsp;She is a full, harmonious, sensual and enchanting manifestation of these energies. This creates an irresistible force of attraction for a conscious man.There is a lot of confusion, rejection and denigration of the feminine energies in modern society and this has led to a lot of women refusing to embrace the fullness of their feminine powers.&nbsp;They would rather deny these, or reject them as being ‘below them’ or ‘unsafe’; instead cultivating masculine qualities which make it easier for them to feel powerful and accepted in a global culture that is dominated by negative masculine qualities.&nbsp;The woman who embraces her femininity is strong and confident in her feminine energies; she does not use them to manipulate or control others, neither is she afraid or ashamed of them; hiding them away where no one can see them.&nbsp;She is sexy, she is powerful, she is sensual, she is bold, she is confident. She is what every conscious man wants, because a relationship with her promises fulfilment of the body, mind and soul, and the gifts to awaken both partners to their full potential.Such a woman will always be met with admiration, adoration and an overwhelming love.As a wise man once said, “If you want to find your King, then you need to first become the Queen whom he will find completely irresistible.”Your femininity is a gift, an inspiration and a miracle; not just to you but to everyone around you; it is our superpower.&nbsp;For more Information on feminine qualities in relationships visit www.voxamoris.ro

Conscious Qualities to Supercharge your Feminine Charm 

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Sexuality is an area of a great interest for everybody. Many people would attest that orgasm is the singular happiest and most wonderful state of being in the human experience. Yet usually we hear people speaking only about the singular orgasm, localised at the genital level, which is often experienced as&nbsp;short and unfulfilling.&nbsp;Your being is capable of so much more! Full-body orgasm is a beatific experience of pleasure without limits that can be maintained for more or less time, depending on the erotic and sensual awakening of each woman.Full-body orgasms are so intense that you can’t even tell when one is over and the next is starting. The waves of pleasure that you experience come one after another with increasing intensity.&nbsp;After studying orgasm for 22 years, Hartman and Fithian concluded that men and women can have localised orgasms but also expanded and continuous orgasms which can be felt in the entire body.Fully enjoy your erotic energyIn the energy orgasm we can feel, even without direct erotic stimulation, a wave of intense, erotic energy at a point of origin (this could be a chakra, or the base of the spine) that then travels up and ‘through’ the rest of the body.&nbsp;It’s immediately followed by another orgasm which can be even more intense or more profound than the previous. In this case the orgasmic state includes every cell of the body and lasts for a longer period of time.&nbsp;If you amplify and fully enjoy your erotic energy by practicing erotic continence (the perfect control over the erotic energy), you have every chance of experiencing the full-body energy orgasm.Women on top in erotic pleasureWhen it comes to orgasm the most important thing is to relax and take it slowly. Enjoy every sensation, every moment of pleasure and delight. You deserve all the pleasure in the world because you deserve to be happy.&nbsp;&nbsp;Maybe you were told as a child that sexual pleasure was wrong or shameful. Remember all those moments and ideas that you still have inside your mind, and which stop&nbsp;you from freely manifesting your sexuality.&nbsp;Aim to become aware of all of these&nbsp;prejudices, inhibitions and sexual blockages that you have accepted without realising, because at the time you didn’t know how to avoid them. Aim to gently let go of all of them as they are blocking and limiting you from fully manifesting yourself on a erotic level.&nbsp;Furthermore, as many of these blockages are held at a subconscious level and passed down through unconscious parenting (or even subtly and non-verbally) from generation to generation, by releasing yourself from these repressive chains you will also be releasing your daughters.After you have convinced yourself and felt with your whole being that you fully deserve to be happy, make sure you have enough time to make love in a leisurely way. Forget about your problems, forget about the world and stay in intimacy with your lover in the delicious space of your love.Women need time to reach orgasm; in the Tantric tradition foreplay should last for at least 45 minutes, with almost all of this time focused on the woman’s pleasure.&nbsp;In order to reach the total energy orgasm you need to connect yourself to love. Only by loving you can expand to infinity. If it is only carnal sex then it’s possible to experience only localised sensations at the genital level. To go from sex to erotic ecstasy you need to jump on the trampoline of unconditional love.Now that you’ve opened your heart, the time has come to learn how to expand the pleasure in to your entire body. Help yourself by breathing. While you make love, start to breathe consciously. With every breath see yourself expand more and more. You expand and embrace more and more in your consciousness until you embrace the whole body and then your beloved.If you continue in this way you can have exceptional extrasensory experiences because you can include in your awareness even planets and universes. The pleasure that you feel is refined, bright and discrete. This intensity can be higher or lower depending on your vital energy and your capacity of awakening the profound eroticism of your being.Erotic ecstasy is accessiblePeople say that there are no frigid women. This is a great truth. Every healthy woman can reach the peaks of her own eroticism. If she chooses to experience more than just sex and heads to a sacred erotic dimension, if she relaxes and connects herself to the feminine universal energies she can obtain great orgasmic heights and sacred erotic ecstasy.Relax. Enjoy love. Celebrate your femininity and give up your fears and inhibitions. Love and do what you want! You will feel that the orgasms that you start to experience become a river full of energy that invades the universe. It’s the energy of life that you feel in every cell. The blessing of the divine presence reveals itself to you now as being HERE and NOW permanently quiet and mysterious.From sex to superconsciousness. This road of sacred eros will lead you to the land of infinite possibilities.

The full-body orgasm

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Tantra describes lovemaking as the path of privileged evolution. Love making which is full of love and tenderness fills and nourishes our soul; it can become an opportunity for self-discovery and transformation. Through lovemaking we can fix the relationship with ourselves, we can “recreate and renovate our being”. Often, however, due to the accelerated pace of life we just forget to stop, relax, take a break and look within ourselves to find out why we make love and what makes us happy indeed.We suggest the following&nbsp;7 reasons to make love and to achieve sexual continence (the perfect control over the sexual energy). Taking into account these recommendations and applying them, you will discover the unexpected flavour of love and life. These reasons can also help you to intensify the intimacy within the couple and relive the magical state of being in love.1. Through tantric lovemaking we can achieve a state of perfect healthNumerous researches and studies have demonstrated the beneficial impact of lovemaking on physical, emotional, mental and spiritual health. By making love with continence we can obtain a perfect health felt in all organ systems: naturally regenerates blood, develops respiratory muscles, purify lymphatic system, facilitates digestion, strengthens the immune system, strengthens muscles, improves sleep, deeply balances thyroid, harmoniously stimulates adrenals, moisturizes the skin, regulates the menstrual cycle. Lovemaking with continence is the best method of contraception as it is perfectly natural. In other words, making love with love and continence several times per week, maintains our body, mind and soul in a good condition.2 . What can be more beautiful and charming than fully feeling the life energy?We can feel this energy full of effervescence and dynamism especially when we are at peace with ourselves, happy and in love. Making love with sexual continence is the most simple and effective way to fully feel, awaken and amplify the energy of life in our being. Thus, every idea we can think, every step we take, every word we utter becomes impregnated with life, joy and pleasure, and this makes us very attractive, bright and charismatic.3. Generates a state of inner fulfillment and stabilityWith rare exceptions, most often we know just some facts about our beloved. In order to be able to help each other the two lovers need to have confidence in each other. Lovemaking with sexual continence is a mysterious empathic mirroring. If we are attentive enough to what our lover communicates to us, we will gradually succeed to make a clearer and fuller image about our beloved. As a result of this fact a very deep sense of fulfillment and inner stability will appear.4. Brings a magic breath into our livesAn intimate meeting with our lover is a space for creativity and it can bring a magic breath into our lives. Being detached of complicated mind activities in which we are often caught, being open, playful, spontaneous, abandoned in the stream of exaltation and happiness of each other we can live magical states of love. Managing to abandon ourselves during lovemaking with sexual continence being full of curiosity and inspiration we will always have new and fulfilling deep experiences, which looks like we enter a new and fascinating world. This “new” world will be full of synchronicities that will always remind us about the miracle of love.5. Discover and experience joy and happinessBy making love with sexual continence we can discover and experience a huge joy and happiness, which are opposite to the feeling of uncertainty and despair. Intense and lasting joy is a deserved reward of lovemaking plays full of love, commitment and sexual continence. The intense happiness is a state that shows the achievement of a condition of balance and emotional fulfillment. The states of joy and happiness are “attracted” in our being when we make love with tenderness, delicacy, purity, and understanding. An important aspect is the wise use of all our inner resources that are at our disposal.6. Gain the authentic inner freedomThe authentic inner freedom can be described in various ways, but the value of this personal treasure is recognized, understood and appreciated only by those who actually live it. The first step to true inner freedom is to identify and then sincerely express all the fears. Once we have discussed the fears that we have, we will be able to immediately feel a state of relief and courage, we will be able to feel that those fears have lost their chaining and painful power that they had on our being.Inner freedom is experienced in the absence of fears when the constant dialogue with our heart is kept and when we act according to our soul. Only our desire to let our fears go forever can deeply open our soul, which will inevitably attract love and happiness and freedom.The state of freedom felt by the two lovers while making love with sexual continence brings another precious “gift”, which is the discovery of inner space of our soul that will become more and more all-encompassing. The state of freedom amplifies the love that will make true miracles, so we will become masters of our own destiny that will be perfectly integrated into the harmony of the Whole.7. We can discover and live the sacred relationship and the reality&nbsp;of our own soul&nbsp;by being open and enthusiastic to discover all that is good and beautiful in our beloved.Due to a large and overwhelming love between the two lovers, the lovemaking becomes a deep prayer. Thus, we realise that the relationship becomes a jewel of our life that uplifts us. We experience the so-called Unity and we achieve the ideal of love through devotion and commitment to each other. We have the feeling that God holds us in His Arms.Photo credit to Ines Honfi&nbsp;&nbsp;

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On this beautiful journey of becoming a Living Goddess, listening to our hearts is an essential key!Euphoric dance is an invitation to know ourselves from the point of view of our heart.By experiencing this profound connection with our soul in the sacred space within, we discover that we are perfect and unique, that all our sublime feminine qualities are waiting patiently to be manifested, and once we have this realisation we can learn to bring these qualities into all aspects of our daily lives.As women we are glowing and blossoming only when we are truly fulfilled in the heart. ❤️Approaching Euphoric dance as a Soul Dance will lead us quickly to our inner centre, if we gently open our hearts and accept the nature of this sacred feminine mystery which exists in each of us and leads to bliss and ecstasy.This course will take you gradually on this blissful inner journey.<ul><li>Starting with becoming aware of all our tensions and traumas and then embracing them with love so they can heal.</li><li>Learning how to connect to, and awaken, our feminine potential</li><li>Developing our intuition.</li><li>Experiencing the soul dance where our hearts are guiding in every movement, so we can fill the space around us with unconditional love.</li></ul>By the end of our last meeting we will be prepared to dive even deeper and dissolve into bliss and ecstasy.&nbsp;<figure class="media"><oembed url="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LVPeM0mxX7I"></oembed></figure>***Cost of the 4 weeks mini course: £50Every Monday 7 - 8pm GMT starting on 15th March*Recordings available for all sessionsAbout: Andreea is a Tantra for women Teacher and Dance Trainer.She started her journey in hosting events for women a few years back, and aspires with all her heart to support other women to become happy, sensual, feminine, awakened, and full of life by sharing her personal experience and becoming for each of them that authentic friend and support we all wish for when starting a new adventure.She's part of Venus team and has been hosting for Venus webinars on various feminine topics, dance courses ( Sensual Dance, The Art of Striptease, Euphoric Dance) and will very soon be hosting a Women`s Tantra Circle where she lives in Manchester.&nbsp;

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