How to be always successful and happy
How to be always successful and happy
- May 20, 2020
- Catherine Dunworth
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Success comes from within
We all want to have a lot of success. Success in love, in our career, in evolution, in life. According to the principle of resonance, which is actively and continuously present in the Universe, you want success, because you already know it, you just think you want it because you lack it.
The good news is that when something seems missing, it is not actually true. The Universe is full. There is no lack in the Universe. The idea of lack is just an illusion that we often perceive as reality.
As women we think we have many needs. We need a man or a career; we need money for something, anything, to feel happy. Women more than men, experience this illusion of need, because she thinks she needs to revolve around something. Need brings the idea of a lack, of something missing or that does not exist. At a fundamental level, lack is non-existent in the Universe and neither is need. We live in a world constantly full, complete, and whole. The need is just a fictional representation of our mind, which perceives reality through a filter that it applies.
Do we really need something to be happy? NO. Happiness is not a consequence or a result of certain conditions; it is always in the Universe, because absolute bliss is the natural state of all creation. We do not need anything specific in order to be ourselves or to be what we already are.
The Universe does not require any specific results because the Universe itself is a result. God does not need anything. He does not seek results. Isn’t it Him who delivers outcomes? God is present in us, and when we feel connected to Him or in communion with Him every need disappears, because then we connect to All, we have All, we become All.
If however you are dealing with the feeling and idea of lack and seek to fulfill your needs, you should know that you will always find the constant real fulfillment inside you, not outside. What you seek is much, much closer to you than you think. The resonant focus is inside: you’re the one who attracts or rejects the success.
Many of us are accustomed to think that once you have accomplished enough, accumulated enough, got enough recognition – success will be served on a plate. Unfortunately, most consider that it is never enough. The fact that the real success is not somewhere out in the world but only in us can be shocking to some, however it’s realization brings some illuminating moments.
Let’s make an experiment: Take a pen and a piece of paper: “Define Success”. If the answer includes concepts such as: accomplishments, possessions, career, relationships – then success is a treasure, yes, but located somewhere else. And it’s like we climb a high ladder to find out at the top that we have supported it on the wrong wall. There are many people who have already achieved material success and yet have chosen the path of drugs or alcohol. Why? Because the material achievements do not bring in reality that fulfillment you expect. The authentic fulfillment appears in the soul and is more complex because it is actually a success of our own being, which discovers itself, and begins to have access to the Universal secrets.
What to do? It’s time to change our vision, to redefine success, to understand that fulfillment is an inner state that is necessary to learn to recognize inside our self.
Thus, the pathway to success is a journey without distance inside us. All you have to do is to remove the illusions that cover, with a very sophisticated package, our natural ability to succeed. Success always comes from within; nobody offers it to us. We can acquire any state or thing by strongly thinking and believing it.
Let good things happen
This inner attitude can be learnt. Enjoy the glass half full attitude, the confident and optimistic vision. Let us change the way we perceive our own life. Let us not focus on the problems and obstacles all the time; let us trust the present moment and the future that awaits us.
Let us learn to see the world as an opportunity, necessity and synchronicity. Let good things happen whilst remaining in a state of relaxation, detachment and gratefulness. The key is resonance: if we are looking for reasons to be successful, we will find them, if we are looking for reasons not to be successful, you will find them too. The Universe always answers the vibration frequency we emit with the same vibration. So happiness and success always lie in our hands.
Rediscover the child from within. He was always self-confident and optimistic. A known contemporary writer says: “I have looked for a long time for a sceptical baby, but could not find one.” Childhood has the access to reality more than we can imagine, even if it does not realize or understand it.
Renounce false ideas
Superlatives of “to do” and “to have” mean full success. For some, however, it is never enough. Many people are always unhappy and ungrateful, even if they have more than others have ever dreamed of. These people can be easily recognized. They are constantly busy and looking for “more”.
For others, success is relative; its value is found when compared to the others. They are the ones who are guided by the gain / loss mental set up and always seem to be in competition. They are rarely seen happy and serene.
If you recognize yourself in one of these profiles, give up resentment and choose to say “thank you” for what you have and what you are. This is the attitude, which really brings success, happiness and inner freedom.