Do you wish for a happy and loving couple relationship?

  • May 20, 2020
  • Catherine Dunworth
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Do you wish for a happy and loving couple relationship? Love yourself first!

Enjoy your lover’s presence, with no fear of losing him, no fear of suffering. Think that nobody can hurt you; you have the entire responsibility of your thoughts, emotions, feelings and intentions.

You have the chance of being happy

You have the power of loving the other one without asking for something in particular, without complaining for one thing or another, without doubting, simply admiring his qualities, supporting him in his personal development.

This way, your love would be balanced, true, always new and joyful. Freed from the relentless expectation, you receive his love as a gift, not as a vital help.

Your lover is not here to fill a gap in your soul, but for offering you a tribute. Choose to attract happiness, thus your road to true love will be open; because always everything starts from within us.

Get in contact with your inner power

The woman who doesn’t love herself is insistently asking her lover to love her. She usually waits for proofs of love; she keeps a close eye on his words and his gestures, she needs reassurances and confirmations. Sometimes she is afraid not to lose the loved being, she worries at the smallest appearance of affective withdrawal. She interprets his phrases and attitudes in a way that is unfavorable to her. She can also keep in mind exactly some actions, words or gestures which could be a proof of lack of affection. When you least expect her to she passes from joy to suspicion, from adoration to pessimism. Love based on these types of behaviors and dependencies will for sure end one day or another.

The challenges within a couple are not the other ones issues. They are events that generate an encounter with our own selves. Either we refuse it, we fall again and again in the same error, either we accept the confrontation with our own limits and we choose to awaken our own inner force, and connect to the peace within.

Cherish the great privilege of your love

Love your own soul and you are not going to always crave for love supplements. Trust yourself completely and you will not feel the need to look for reassurances from now on. Discover your qualities and flaws and you will not have the wish to conquer in order to prove to yourself that you really exist.

To love yourself has nothing to do with egoism or ego. These are only signs of a lack of communication with your profound self. Love for your self brings with it kindness, demureness, nobility, inner satisfaction, optimism and emotional maturity.

True love naturally respects the other person’s freedom. Many times we think we have rights over the other person, because we love him and therefore he has obligations towards us. We, in fact, do not have any right over him. And he does not have any obligation towards us. Love does not demand property rights. It is a spontaneous self-giving.

It is commonly understood that life in a couple gives one a privileged statute that gives the access to the other person’s intimate space. This is a given privilege, not an owed right. It is a privilege that you can receive in dignity; a gift that only love makes you worthy of, each and every day.

Photo credit to Ines Honfi

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